英语写作素材英语写作素材范文hi.i'mheretotalktoyouabouttheimportanceofpraise,admirationandthankyou,andhavingitbespecificandgenuine.嗨。我在这里要和大家谈谈向别人表达赞美，倾佩和谢意的重要性。并使它们听来真诚，具体。andthewayigotinterestedinthiswas,inoticedinmyself,wheniwasgrowingup,anduntilaboutafewyearsago,thatiwouldwanttosaythankyoutosomeone,iwouldwanttopraisethem,iwouldwanttotakeintheirpraiseofmeandi'djuststopit.andiaskedmyself,why?ifeltshy,ifeltembarrassed.andthenmyquestionbecame,amitheonlyonewhodoesthis?so,idecidedtoinvestigate.之所以我对此感兴趣是因为我从我自己的成长中注意到几年前，当我想要对某个人说声谢谢时，当我想要赞美他们时，当我想接受他们对我的赞扬，但我却没有说出口。我问我自己，这是为什么?我感到害羞，我感到尴尬。接着我产生了一个问题难道我是唯一一个这么做的人吗?所以我决定做些探究。i'mfortunateenoughtoworkintherehabfacility,soigettoseepeoplewhoarefacinglifeanddeathwithaddiction.andsometimesitcomesdowntosomethingassimpleas,theircorewoundistheirfatherdiedwithouteversayinghe'sproudofthem.butthen,theyhearfromallthefamilyandfriendsthatthefathertoldeverybodyelsethathewasproudofhim,buthenevertoldtheson.it'sbecausehedidn'tknowthathissonneededtohearit.我非常幸运的在一家康复中心工作，所以我可以看到那些因为上瘾而面临生与死的人。有时候这一切可以非常简单地归结为，他们最核心的创伤来自于他们父亲到死都未说过“他为他们而自豪”。但他们从所有其它家庭或朋友那里得知他的父亲告诉其他人为他感到自豪，但这个父亲从没告诉过他儿子。因为他不知道他的儿子需要听到这一切。somyquestionis,whydon'tweaskforthethingsthatweneed?iknowagentleman,marriedfor25years,who'slongingtohearhiswifesay,"thankyouforbeingthebreadwinner,soicanstayhomewiththekids,"butwon'task.iknowawomanwho'sgoodatthis.she,onceaweek,meetswithherhusbandandsays,"i'dreallylikeyoutothankmeforallthesethingsididinthehouseandwiththekids."andhegoes,"oh,thisisgreat,thisisgreat."andpraisereallydoeshavetobegenuine,butshetakesresponsibilityforthat.andafriendofmine,april,whoi'vehadsincekindergarten,shethanksherchildrenfordoingtheirchores.andshesaid,"whywouldn'tithankit,eventhoughthey'resupposedtodoit?"因此我的问题是，为什么我们不索求我们需要的东西呢?我认识一个结婚25年的男士渴望听到他妻子说，“感谢你为这个家在外赚钱，这样我才能在家陪伴着孩子，”但他从来不去问。我认识一个精于此道的女士。每周一次，她见到丈夫后会说，“我真的希望你为我对这个家和孩子们付出的努力而感谢我。”他会应和到“哦，真是太棒了，真是太棒了。”赞扬别人一定要真诚，但她对赞美承担了责任。