TheTapestryofFriendshipWarming-upWhat’sfriendship?Whatcanfriendshipsgive?WhatMakesAGoodFriendship?Culturalinformation4Howtomakefriends?Beyourself-nooneisperfect.Yourfriendswon’texpectyoutobe,soitisbesttojustbeyourself.Don’texpectperfectioninyourfriends-likeyou,yourfriendswillmakemistakesnowandthen.Laughwiththemaboutit,butdon’tputthemdown.Friendshipistogiveandtake-friendshipissharingthingslikefeelings,plans,anddreams.Tomakeandkeepafriend,youhavetogiveaswellastake.Learntocompromise.10ThekindsoffriendshipsCulturalinformation5Culturalinformation6Culturalinformation7Culturalinformation8FriendshipbetweenWomenFriendshipbetweenMenⅢ.BackgroundInformationAbouttheauthorEllenGoodman,isaBostonGlobeOnlinecolumnistandastylishwriterwithahumanizingtouchonanyissue,publicorpersonal.Sheiswidelyacclaimedasavoiceofsanity,andreadersdependonhertohelpthemmakesenseoftheirchanginglivesandrelationships.Bibliography:2.AboutthetextⅣ.StructuralAnalysisToshowthedifferencesbetweenbuddinessandfriendshipeffectively,theauthorofthetextcoordinatessentencesinvariousways.Sometimesheusesconjunctionssuchasbut,yetandwhile.Andsometimeshesimplyputstwoclausestogetherwithoutusinganyconjunctionatall.Forexamples:Well,shethought,onthewhole,menhadbuddies,whilewomenhadfriends.Buddiesbonded,butfriendsloved.Buddiesfacedadversitytogether,butfriendsfacedeachother.Therewassomethingpalpablydifferentinthewaytheyspenttheirtime.Buddiesseemedto“do”thingstogether;friendssimply“were”together.(paragraph8)Buddieshangtoughtogether;friendshangontoeachother.(paragraph11)TapestryTapestrytapestryⅤ.LanguageWorkLanguagestudy(paragraph1&2-1)slight:a.ofnoimportanceorconsideration;trifling*1.cosmicDetailedreading1–itwasinmanyways…GirlfriendsLanguagestudy(paragraph1&2-4)affection&loveLanguagestudy(paragraph1&2-5)Languagestudy(paragraph1&2-6)Languagestudy(paragraph3-6)Detailedreading1--Quesion2Detailedreading3-4–shiftone’sfocusDetailedreading3-4–flick15.bingen.agenreoffilm,television,andradioprogrammersemphasizingrealismandnaturalism