2013朝阳区OutsideourhotelinHoChiMinhCity,Vietnam,aseeminglyancientwomanwaitedbesidethedoorwithherhandoutstretched(伸出的).EverydayIputmyhandinhersasoureyes__36__.Shenever__37__toreturnmysmile,mygrasp,andmygreeting.Onthelastdayofour__38__,Ifoundmyself__39__onabusycorneracrossthestreetfromourhotel.Bicyclesandmotorbikesrushedinfrontofme.Wehadbeenadvisedtowalk__40__throughtheheavytrafficwithoutlookingrightorleft.Letthem__41__us.ButtonightIwasbymyselfandfelt__42__tofacethestreamofvehicles.__43__Ihesitatedonthesidewalk,Ifeltahandonmyelbowandlookeddowntoseethesmileofmysmallbeggarfriendlookingupatme.Shenoddedherheadtowardthestreet,__44__thatshewouldtakemeacross.Together,wemovedslowlyintothechaos.Thenwemovedon__45__thesidewalk,whereshepulledmyfacedowntohers,kissedmeonbothcheeks,andthenwalkedaway,stillsmilingandwavingbacktome.Ihadnotgivenherasinglecoin.Wehad__46__somethingvastlymoreimportant—awarmingofheartsinfriendship.Travelinginpoorernations,Ihave__47__avarietyofwaystodealwithbeggars.Themost__48__responseoftouristsfacedwiththoseextremelypoorpeopleisto__49__themandfocustheireyeselsewhere.Ihaveseenpeoplepushawayanoutstretchedhandin__50__.Afewmayhurriedlydropafewcoins,andthenmakeaquickgetawayinhopesthatanother20raggedbeggarswon’timmediatelyappearonthe__51__.Formanyreasons,givingmoneyisnotthebest__52__toanoutstretchedhand.Thegreatestgiftistimeandrespect.Tolookbeggarsintheeyeandsmile,thusacknowledgingtheirexistence,isasmallthing.Puttingyourhandintoanother’soutstretchedhandandgraspingit__53__foramomentisalsoasmallthing.Buttheseareimportant.Everyoneneeds__54__,tobeseenasworthyofbeing__55__,tofeelappreciatedandloved.AndIbelievethateveryoneisworthyandworthknowing.36.A.metB.openedC.turnedD.dropped37.A.attemptedB.wantedC.managedD.failed38.A.workB.visitC.campD.festival39.A.freeB.aloneC.lostD.exposed40.A.awayB.offC.straightD.about41.A.avoidB.stopC.leadD.direct42.A.unwillingB.inadequateC.inappropriateD.unfit43.A.SinceB.AlthoughC.AsD.Before44.A.hopingB.