PAGE\*MERGEFORMAT4Hewhowouldlearntoflyonedaymustfirstlearntostandandwalkandrunandclimbanddance;onecannotflyintoflying.IforgetwhatIwastaught.IonlyrememberwhatIhavelearned.Ifyoueducateaman,youeducateaperson,butifyoueducateawoman,youeducateafamily.Learningtolearnistoknowhowtonavigate（导航）inaforestoffacts,ideasandtheories,aproliferation（扩散）ofconstantlychangingitemsofknowledge.Learningtolearnistoknowwhattoignorebutatthesametimenotrejectinginnovation（创新）andresearch.Noonecanbecomereallyeducatedwithouthavingpursuedsomestudyinwhichhetooknointerest.Foritispartofeducationtointerestourselvesinsubjectsforwhichwehavenoaptitude（天资）.Educationisnotthefillingofapail,butthelightingofafire.Perhapsthemostvaluableresultofalleducationistheabilitytomakeyourselfdothethingyouhavetodo,whenitoughttobedone,whetheryoulikeitornot.;itisthefirstlessonthatoughttobelearned,andhoweverearlyaman’strainingbegins,itisprobablythelastlessonthathelearnsthoroughly.Goodteachingis1/4preparationand3/4theatre.Onefatherisbetterthan100schoolmasters.Educationiswhatsurviveswhenwhathasbeenlearnedhasbeenforgotten.Youcanbearyourownfaults,andwhynotafaultinyourwife?Asageneralthing,peoplemarrymosthappilywiththeirownkind.Thetroubleliesinthefactthatpeopleusuallymarryatanagewhentheydonotreallyknowwhattheirownkindis.Thereisn’tawifeintheworldwhohasnottakentheexactmeasureofherhusband,weighedhimandsettledhiminherownmind,andknowshimaswellasifshehadorderedhimafterdesignsandspecifications（规格）ofherown.Everystoryhasthreesidestoit-yours,mineandthefacts.Ihaveneverinmylifelearnedanythingfromanymanwhoagreedwithme.Thetestofamanorwoman’sbreedingishowtheybehaveinaquarrel.Untiljusticeisblindtocolor,untileducationisunawareofrace,untilopportunityisunconcernedwiththecolorofmen’sskins,emancipation（解放）willbeaproclamation（宣布）,butnotafact.Ihopethatpeoplewillfinallycometorealizethatthereisonlyone‘race’-thehumanrace,andthatweareallmembersofit.Whenonedoorofhappinesscloses,anotheropens;butoftenwelooksolongatthecloseddoorthatwedonot