会计学Unit6ContentsExpressionsrelatedtotwogenders“别瞎说，我们只是好朋友而已。”听到这种台词，相必一大帮人会带着一副原来如此的表情在心里说“且……”。我只听过一句话“不要让你的女朋友有蓝颜知己，因为(yīnwèi)蓝着蓝着你就绿了，不要让你的男朋友有红颜知己，因为(yīnwèi)红着红着你俩就黄了”我觉得很对。在幼儿园里存在，还有就是耄耋之年有，这中间的年龄段绝对是挑战。1.Lead-inCommentToJohn6monthsnotleadtomarriageToLiHuatimetobringJohntomeetparentsToLiHua’sparentstreatJohnasafutureson-in-lawbackgroundmarriageplansCase2Canwetalkaboutus?Thisshowsacommontypeofclashincross-gendercommunication.Forwomen,theirrelationshipisapopulartopic,whileformen,itisnotafocus.Menusetalktosolveproblemsratherthantoenhancetheirrelationship.Womenthinkiftheyaretalkingwitheachother,theneverythingisgoingsmoothly.ForBen,Anna’ssuggestiontotalkabouttheirrelationshipispointless.ForAnna,Ben’sreluctanceandlackofinterestintalkingsimplyhurtherfeelings.Case3Feelingleft–outInpublic,thenormsofexpressingone’sfeelingsandaffectionstowardtheoppositesexvariesacrossculture.InAsiaandsomecountriesaroundtheMediterraneanSea,itisacceptabletohavebodycontactbetweenthesamesexinpublic,butnotbetweentheoppositesexes,especiallyinfrontofthefriends.Chenleftbecausehefeltawkwardwitnessingthemhuggingandkissing.ThisshowsthatDickknowsnothingaboutthenaturalresponseoftheChinesetocertainbehaviors.Similarly,ChenLiang’sbehaviorshowsthatheisalsointhedarkaboutAmericanbehaviors.2.TextStudyIndicatesexualidentitiesSexisdeterminedbygeneticsandbiology,whilegenderisproducedbysociety.PleasereadFeminineandMasculineCommunicationCulturesinyourtextbookfrompage120to123andanswerthefollowingquestions.Girls’Games(unstructured,cooperative)Becooperative,collaborative,andinclusiveDon’tcriticizeoroutdoothers.Payattentiontoother’sfeelingsandneedsSummaryDifferencesbetweenFeminineandMasculineCommunicationCulture4.Matchingexperienceswithothersshowsunderstandingandempathy5.Tosupportothers,expressunderstandingoftheirfeelings.6.Includeothersinconversationbyaskingtheiropinionsandencouragingthemtoelaborate.7.Keeptheconversationgoingbyaskingquestionsandshowinginterestinothers’ideas.8.Beresponsive.Leto