改变我职业生涯的建议改变我职业生涯的三条建议Lookingbackovermycareertodate,Icanidentifyatleastthreeclearinfluencesthatforeveralteredmycareerpath.Inretrospect,it'sinterestingtoseehowdifferentthecontextwasforeach:parentaladvice,apassageinabook,andapersistentboss.Despitethecontrasts,allthreeshareonethingincommon--reinforcingtheimportanceofknowingwhatitisyouultimatelywanttoaccomplish,andbeingopentoallowingoutsideforcestohelpclarify,reinforceandfacilitatethepathtomakingithappen.回顾我的职业生涯，我可以总结出至少三种力量永远的改变了我的生涯道路，它们是父母的建议、书本的启发和一个坚持的老板。忽略三者之间的差异，有一点是共同的：它们都认为最重要的是你知道自己最终想要什么，和擅于利用外界力量帮助你澄清并实现你的生涯梦想。Herearethethreepiecesofadvicethathelpedshapemycareer:以下是改变我职业生涯的三条建议：1.Youcandoanythingyousetyourmindto1.你可以做到一切你一心想做的事Asachild,Ican'trecalladaythatwentbywithoutmydadtellingmeIcoulddoanythingIsetmymindto.Hesaiditsooften,Istoppedhearingit.Alongwithlineslike"eatyourvegetables,"Ijustassumeditwasoneofthosebromidesthatparentsrepeatedendlesslytotheirkids.Itwasn'tuntildecadeslaterthatIfullyappreciatedtheimportanceofthosewordsandtheimpacttheyhadonme.在我还是个孩子的时候，我的父亲每天都会告诉我：你可以做到一切你一心想做的事。他常把这句话挂在嘴边，就像他常说：“吃掉你的青菜”。我以为这句话就像其它父母总是会不停对子女唠叨的老生常谈一样，直到多年以后我才明白这句话背后的分量和它对我的影响。Today,thequestionI'maskedmostoftenbystudentsandinternsishowbesttoachievetheircareergoals.Assimpleasitsounds,theshortversionofmyresponseisthatyouhavetoknowwhatitisyouultimatelywanttoaccomplish(optimizingforbothpassionandskill,andnotoneattheexclusionoftheother).Assoonasyoudo,you'llbeginmanifestingitinbothexplicitandimplicitways.ithoutquestion,thisfirstprinciplehasbeenthemostconsistentdriverofmyowncareerpathoverthelast20years.今天，我最常被学生和实习生们问到的'问题就是什么是实现他们生涯目标的最佳方式。我会用最简短的方式来回答，那就是：你必须知道你最终想要的是什么（在综合考虑你的能力和兴趣之后，两者是不可割裂的）。一旦你做到了这一点，你就会开始从心理和行为上都向这个目标靠近。毫无疑问的，这条首要原则是我自己过去20年生涯发展不变的动力。2.Everythingthatcanbeconvertedfromanatomtoabit,willbe2.任何把物质数字化的改变都会有价值InAugust,1994,IsignedupforanAolaccount.I'llneverforgetmyfirst"a-ha!"momentonlinewhichoccurredsoonthereafter.Itcamethroughwitnessingthepowerofcollectiveintel