IfIhadmylifetoliveoverVeronica2012,10,9IfIhadmylifetoliveover,IwouldhavegonetobedwhenIwassickinsteadofpretendingtheearthwouldgointoaholdingpatternifIweren'ttherefortheday.Iwouldhaveburnedthepinkcandlesculptedlikearosebeforeitmeltedinstorage.Iwouldhavetalkedlessandlistenedmore.Iwouldhaveinvitedfriendsovertodinnerevenifthecarpetwasstained,orthesofafaded.Iwouldhaveeatenthepopcorninthe'good'livingroomandworriedmuchlessaboutthedirtwhensomeonewantedtolightafireinthefireplace.Iwouldhavetakenthetimetolistentomygrandfatherrambleabouthisyouth.Iwouldhavesharedmoreoftheresponsibilitycarriedbymyhusband.Iwouldhavecriedandlaughedlesswhilewatchingtelevisionandmorewhilewatchinglife.Whenmykidskissedmeimpetuously,Iwouldneverhavesaid,'Later.Nowgogetwashedupfordinner.'Therewouldhavebeenmore"Iloveyou's",more"I'msorry's".Butmostly,givenanothershotatlife,Iwouldseizeeveryminute.Lookatitandreallyseeit.Liveitandnevergiveitback.Stopsweatingthesmallstuff！Don'tworryaboutwhodoesn'tlikeyou,whohasmore,orwho'sdoingwhat.Instead,let'scherishtherelationshipswehavewiththosewhodoloveus.Let'sthinkaboutwhatGodhasblesseduswith.Andwhatwearedoingeachdaytopromoteourselvesmentally,physically,emotionally,aswellasspiritually.Lifeistooshorttoletitpassyouby.Weonlyhaveoneshotatthisandthenit'sgone.Ihopeyouallhaveablessedday.☺如果生命可以重来，我会在自己生病时卧床休息，而不是假装整个地球将因我今日不在而停止旋转。我会在那个玫瑰形状的粉红蜡烛在地下室里融化之前将它点燃。我会少说话多聆听听。我会请朋友到家里吃饭，虽然我的地毯满是污渍，沙发已经褪色。我会在干净的客厅里吃爆米花，而不是担心当有人想点燃壁炉时会看到壁炉里未打扫的灰烬。我会抽出时间听爷爷絮絮叨叨讲他年轻时的往事。我会替丈夫分忧解难。我会把更多的眼泪和笑声留给生活，而不是电视。当我的孩子莫名地亲我时，我永远不会再说，“等一会儿。现在你要洗手吃饭。”我会更多地说“我爱你”，“对不起。”但是，更重要的是，如果生命可以重来，我将珍惜每一分钟。凝视它，并体会它。体验它，不会轻易对它放手。不再为小事而斤斤计较！不要因为那些不喜欢你的人，那些比你拥有更多的人而忧郁，也不要管别人在干什么。让我们珍惜与那些爱我们的人之间的亲情。让我们想一下上天所给我们的恩赐，想一下我们每天该如何做才能使自己的心理、身体、情感和心灵得到升华。生命如此短暂，怎敢蹉跎；人生只有一次，转瞬即逝。愿你拥有幸福的每一天。Thankyouforlistening.