HowtoWriteEssaysExampleFrom2010CET4WritingHowshouldParentsHelpChildrentoBeIndependent?1.目前不少父母为孩子包办一切2.为了让孩子独立，父母应该。。。。。。Passage1Thesedaysmanyparentstendtomakealldecisionsfortheirchildrenforfearthattheymightdosomethingwrong.Theparents’purposeisquiteclear:toprotecttheirkidsfrompossiblefailures.Butthispracticeturnsouttomaketheirchildrenincreasinglydependentonthem.Fortheirchildren’futuredevelopment,parentsshouldhelpthemtobeindependent.Theearliertheytakemeasurestodoso,themorebenefittheirchildrenwillget.Parentsshouldfirstteachtheirchildrenhowtomakeplan,anindispensableskillfortheirfuturesurvival.Parentsshouldalsogivetheirchildrenmorefreedom,amusttochildren’sindependence.Ifthechildrenonlyfollowrulessetbytheirparents,theywillnevergainthesenseofindependence.Mostimportantly,parentsshouldbeopentodifferentideasfromtheirchildren.Ifchildrenfeelthattheirideasarewelllistenedtoandrespected,theywillbecomemoreconfident.Tosumup,parentsshouldprovidetheirchildrenwithplan-makingskill,freedomandrespect.Inthisway,childrenwillgrowmoreindependent.Passage2Nowadays,manyparentsdoeverythingfortheirchildren.theycookmealsandwashclothesfortheirchildren.Andtheyevenmakeallthechoicesfortheirchildren.Everythinghasdonebytheparentsandthechildrenwilldonothingbutfollowingtheparentsdecisions.Inordertohelpchildrentobeindependent,parentsshouldfollowthesuggestionsgivenbelow.First,letchildrendosomehousework,suchaswashingdishesandcleaningrooms.Theseworkswillnottaketoomuchtime,buttheyaresuitableforchildrentolearntoliveindependently.Second,givethechancetomanagethefamilytochildren.Asafamilymember,childshouldknowhowtomanagethefamily.Andtheparentsshouldteachthemthiskindofskills.Inthisway,childrencanlearnthenecessaryabilitiestoliveontheirown.Andmostimportant,givemorefreedomtochildrenandletthemmaketheirownchoice.Onlyinthiswaycanchildrengrowuphealthily.Passage3Nowadays,manyparentsdoeverythingfortheirchildren.Therearemanyreasonsforparentstodothat.Thefirstoneisthattheylovetheirchildrenandwantthemlivebetter.Thesecon