2016TED演讲：更好对话的10种方式英文加中文翻译第一篇：2016TED演讲：更好对话的10种方式英文加中文翻译Allright,Iwanttoseeashowofhands:howmanyofyouhave,unfriendedsomeoneonFacebookbecausetheysaidsomethingoffensiveaboutpoliticsorreligon,childcarefood?Andhowmanyofyouknowatleastonepersonthatyouavoidbecauseyoujustdon'twanttotalktothem?Youknow,itusedtobethatinordertohaveapoliteconversationwejusthadtofollowtheadviceofHenryHigginsin“MyFairLady.”Sticktotheweatherandyourhealth.Butthesedays,withclimatechangeandanti-vaxxing,thosesubject…arenotsafeeither.Sothisworldthatwelivein,thisworldinwhicheveryconversationhasthepotentialtodevolveintoanargument,whereourpoliticianscan'tspeaktooneanotherandwhereeventhemosttrivialofissueshavesomeonefightingbothpassionatelyforitandagainstit,it'snotnormal.PewResearchdidastudyof10000Americanadults,andtheyfoundthatatthismoment,wearemorepopularized,wearemorepided,thanweeverhavebeeninhistory.We'relesslikelytocompromise,whichmeanswe'renotlisteningtoeachother.Andwemakedecisionsaboutwheretolive,whotomarryandevenwhoourfriendsaregoingtobe,basedonwhatwealreadybelieve.Again,thatmeanswe'renotlisteningtoeachother.Aconversationrequiresabalancebetweentalkingandlistening,andsomewherealongtheway,welostthatbalance.Now,partofthatisduetotechnology.Thesmartphonesthatyoualleitherhaveinyourhandsorcloseenoughthatyoucouldgrabthemreallyquickly.AccordingtoPewResearch,aboutathirdofAmericanteenagerssendmorethanahundredtextaday.Andmanyofthem,almostmostofthem,aremorelikelytotexttheirfriendsthantheyaretotalktothemfacetoface.There'sthisgreatpieceinTheAtlantic.ItwaswrittenbyahighschoolteachernamedPaulBarnwell.Andhegavehiskidsacommunicationproject.Hewantedtoteachthemhowtospeakinaspecificsubjectwithoutusingnotes.Andhesaidthis“Icametorealize…”“Icametorealizethatconversationalcompetencemightbethesinglemostoverlookedskillwefailtoteach.”Kidsspendhourseachdayengagingwithideasandeachotherthroughscreens,butrarelydotheyhaveanopportunitytohonetheirinterpersonalcommunicationskills.Itmingtshouldlikeafunnyquestion,butwehavetoaskourselv