GrowingpainsManyteenagersfeellonely,asifnooneunderstandsthemandthechangestheyaregoingthrough.Daybyday,everythingseemsdifferent,yetthesame.Lifeneverseemstobegoingfastenough;yet,inotherways,likearacecar,lifeseemstoberushingtoofastandevengoingoutofcontrol.Hasanyoneelseeverfeltthisway?很多青少年感到孤独，好像没有人理解他们以及他们正在经历的变化。日子一天天过去，而所有事情似乎都是不同的，可又都是一成不变的。生活似乎从不过得足够快；而从别的方面看，生活似乎过得太快甚至于失控，像开赛车一样。别的人也有过同感么?Thesefeelingsareacommonpartofadolescence—thetimeoflifebetweenchildandadult.And,thoughitmaysometimesbedifficulttobelieve,youarenotalone—everyadulthasgonethroughadolescence,andyourfriendsaregoingthroughitrightnowalongwithyou.Itiscommonforteenagerstofeellonelyandmisunderstood.Thesefeelingscanbethoughtofasgrowingpains—thedifficultiesthatteenagersfaceastheygrowtoadults.这些感觉是青春期——介于孩童和成人之间的人生阶段——的正常组成部分。而且，虽然有时难以相信，并非只有你才是这样——每一个成年人都经历过青春期，而你的朋友和你一样正经历这个阶段。对青少年而言，感到孤独和被误解是很普遍的。这些情感可以被看作是成长的烦恼——是青少年迈向成年时所面对的困难。Asteenagersgrow,itisnormalforthemtobecomeconfusedwiththechangingworldbothinsideandoutsideofthem.Duringadolescence,teenagersgothroughgreatphysicalchanges.Theygrowtallerandtheirvoicesgetdeeper,amongmanyotherdevelopments.as在青少年成长的时候，对自己无论体内还是体外的状态变化感到困惑对他们而言是正常现象。在青春期，青少年经历着身体上的巨大变化。他们个子长高，声音变低，还有很多其他的成长发育。Alongwiththesephysicalchanges,therecomemanypsychologicalchanges.Boysandgirlstendtobedifferentinthisregard(inthis[that]regard在这[那]一点上，关于这[那]件事。).Manyboysbecomerisk-takers—theywanttofindtheirownlimitsandthelimitsoftheworldaroundthem,butmaynothavethewisdomtomakegoodchoicesintheirbehavior.Atthesametime,girlsoftenwantsomeone–anyone–totalkto,astheytrytodealwiththeirstrongfeelings.与这些生理变化同时而来的，还有很多心理上的变化。男孩和女孩在这一点上往往有所不同.很多男孩成为危险尝试者——他们希望找到自己的局限和他们周边世界的局限，但也许并不具有对其行为做出正确抉择的智慧。而与此同时，女孩则通常需要和某个人——或任何人——进行交谈，因为她们试图处理自己强烈的情感。Inthesocialworld,asteenagersgetolder,theystruggletodependonthemselves.Theymaybadlywantandneedtheirparents’love,yetfeeldistant;theymaywanttobepartofthegroup,yetdesireindependence.Sinceteenagershavedifficultybalancingtheseneeds,theyoftenquestionwhotheyareandhowthe