educationchildrenlearntoviabilityThereisastory,saidisagroupofinthemountainsforapicnicchildrengetlost,indampinhungerspentthenightterror,theyhopelesslycrying,"peopleneverfindus"achildcryhopelesslysaid,"wewilldiehere."However,11yearsoldeveraystationcomeout,"Idon'twanttodie!"Shesaidfirmly,"myfathersaid,aslongasgoalongthestream,streamwillbringustoalargestream,andeventuallyyouwillmeetasmalltown.Iwasgoingtowalkalongthestream,youcanfollowme."Asaresult,theyintheeverayleadbottom,victorytowearoutofthewoods.Perhapspeoplewillthink,aseveraysuchagirlbornwithatalent,actuallycannotborn,thankstohisfatheracquirededucation.Inthewesterncountries,includingeastAsianJapan,attachesgreatimportancetothechild'ssurvivaleducation,from1upchildren,educationhowtheylearntosurviveandself-reliance,droppedtohisclimbup,oneselflearntoeat,finishtheirownthings,andknowwhatcircumstancehowtoprotectthemselves.Extendedreading:Howshouldlearntosurvive?Howshouldlearntosurvive?Second,thecultureoftoleranceandself-controlPsychologistshavedonesuchanexperiment,thekindergartenteachergiveeachchildapieceofsugar,andtellthem:"noweat,justgiveapiece,ifyoucanendureafteranhourandtheneat,canbeareward."Aftertrackingsurveyresultsshowthatallthosewhocanendurechildrensuccessrategreatlyhigherthancan'tendurechildren.Thisinpsychologythatdelayeffect,ordelaymeet.Manychildrenactanticlimax,lackofwillandpatience,growupandfewcareersuccess.Sohowtoraisechildrenendurance?Forexample,youngchildrenareanxioustodrinkmilk,don'timmediatelytomeethim,andlethimcryforawhile,atthesametimeslowlyandhespeak,beclaphisback,andthentohimtoeat,patiencetimegraduallyextended,fromafewsecondstoafewminutes;Thepocketmoneytoeachtimesoonspendchildren,parentscansay:"ifyoucankeepfromaweekdoesn'tcostmoney,nextweekcoulddoubletoyou,youcansaveuptobuyyouneedsomething."Thechildrenmeetwithdifficulties,parentsdonotimmediatelygivehimhelp,butencouragedhimtoinsistonit,enduresetbacksbringunpleasantness,soonwillbesuccessful.Extendedreading:Shouldhowtodevelopself-control?Howshoul