Onepossibleversion:Hi！Alice,SometimesIhavethesameproblem.AndIthinkyouneedtocommunicatewithyourparents.First,askyourparentsformoreinformationaboutthefamilypartyanddecidewhichismoreimportantforyou.Second,tellyourparentswhatyouthinkaboutit.Ifyoudecidenottogotothefamilyparty,you’dbettertellthemthatyoulovethemandotherfamilymembersverymuch.Lastbutnotleast,bepolitewhenrefusingtheinvitation.It’salwaysnecessarytothinkcarefullybeforemakingadecision.IhopewhatIsaidcanhelpyou.