“啃老族”现象:个人与社会的双重悲哀Educationandhousingarewhatlocalyoungcouplesrelymostontheirparents,accordingtoasurveyreportreleasedbytheShanghaiWomen'sFederationtoday.根据上海妇女联合会今天公布的一份调查报告，教育和住房是当地年轻夫妻依赖他们父母最多的。Theonlinesurveywasconductedlastmonthon189localresidentstolookintothephenomenonoftheNEETgroup--peopleNotinEducation,EmploymentandTraining--fromtheperspectivesoffamilyincome,wayoflife,andfilialobligation.上个月对189户当地居民进行了在线调查，从家庭收入、生活方式以及孝顺义务的角度以透视“啃老族”现象（不是处在教育、就业和培训阶段的人）。ReceivingfinancialsupportfromparentsisthemostcommonpracticeamongtheNEETgroup.Morethanhalfoftherespondentssaytheyuseparents'moneyforchildeducationandhomepurchase.Theyalsogetmoneyfromparentsforwedding,newhomeappliancesanddailyexpensesandforbuyingacar.接受父母的经济支持在“啃老族”中是最常见的做法。超过一半的受访者说，他们用父母的钱支付子女教育和购买家庭用品。他们还因为婚礼、新家电、日常开支和购买汽车从父母那拿钱。Thesurveyfoundlackofindependencetoppedallthereasonsforyoungpeopletorelyontheirparents,accountingfornearly80percentoftherespondentswhoarebetween20and50.调查发现独立性的缺乏是年轻人依赖父母的首要原因，20岁至50岁的受访者占了将近80％。Thefederationsaiditisnotjusttheyoungpeoplethemselvestoblame,ahighunemploymentrate,awideningincomegap,andrisinghomepricesforcemanymarriage-ageyoungpeopletoseeksupportfromtheirparents.该联合会说，这不能仅仅怪年轻人自己，失业率高、收入差距扩大以及房价上涨迫使许多处于结婚年龄的年轻人从他们父母那寻求支持。Someparentsarealsotoblameforspoilingtheironlychildandlavishmoneyontheironlygrandchild,thefederationsaid.一些家长也有责任，因为宠坏了独生子女和把钱大量花在他们唯一的孙子身上，该联合会说。Morethan40percentoftherespondentssaidlivingwithparentsisnotagoodchoiceandcancausefamilydispute.About30percentsaidtheychosetolivewiththeirparentssoastotakecareofeachother.超过40％的受访者表示与父母同住并不是一个好选择，而且可能导致家庭纠纷。约30％的受访者表示他们选择与父母同住，这样可以彼此照顾。